Find Your People.
Keep the Fun.
Lose the Alcohol.
You don’t need alcohol to belong
The queer community comes with its own challenges, both within and outside of it. When you add being alcohol or substance-free, it can feel isolating…even impossible. For so long, bars have been our safe space, and will forever be grateful for. But they’ve also made it hard to imagine connection without alcohol.
Out and About AF is changing that.
Based in Dallas, TX, we’re building a space where you can be fully yourself, connect with others, and actually enjoy life, without alcohol. Whether you’re sober, sober curious, or just craving something different…you belong here
Join our online community and in-person events designed for queer people living alcohol-free.
If you’ve ever felt:
Disconnected or out of place
Like alcohol is your only way to socialize
Ready for something more…but not sure what that looks like
Alcohol is everywhere, used to cope with stress, celebrate wins, or fill the silence. For many of us, it’s all we’ve known.
But what if that’s not the life you actually want?
Start with 30 days and see what changes.
Grab the FREE 30-Day AF Challenge workbook — daily tasks, a journal prompt, and one simple step at a time. No pressure. Just progress.
No spam. Just real support from someone who's been there.
Out and About AF gives you more than just sobriety…it gives you connection.
You’ll find a community of people who get it, who’ve been there, and who are choosing something different.
Through coaching, events in Dallas, TX, and retreats, you’ll build:
Confidence in who you are
Real connections (without alcohol)
A life that actually feels fulfilling
Because you were never meant to do this alone.
What isAF?
At first glance, you might think it means that word—but nope, think again! Around here, AF stands for Alcohol-Free. It’s our cheeky little way of owning sobriety with confidence and style. It’s bold, it’s fun, and if you know, you know. So go ahead, say it loud—we’re living life Out & About AF.